It’s been known for some time that the most successful business executives have coaches. In Personnel Today, coaching is called, “a huge trend that is growing at a phenomenal rate. At top levels of business, it is more unusual not to have a coach than to have one.” The newest trend in coaching is Relationship Coaching; it’s one of the best ways to get results faster in the love arena. How can coaching help your love life? First, having a Relationship Coach means you have a person supporting you in your desire—whether that’s to help you manifest the perfect partner; to help you sort out the relationship you’re in; to move on from a current relationship; or to rekindle the magic in your longtime relationship. Relationship Coaching helps you have many “ah-ha” moments, and sometimes total shifts in consciousness, which will increase your momentum in reaching your goals. Working with a good coach doesn’t just double your velocity; it allows you to make quantum leaps, literally inhabiting one reality one moment and anotherthe next. You will become crystal clear in your vision of relationship, what you want and need, as well as how to get it. You will become more in touch with your intuition and able to recognize the truth more easily. For example, if you’re navigating the dating scene, you will be able to recognize and say “no” when it’s a “no” and not waste your time with two, three, or four dates. Working with a coach, you will also become more aware and appreciative of your strengths and how to enhance them. And while your coach holds the mirror, you will also become acutely aware of the ways you may be keeping love out of your life. If you self sabotage, settle, fear having what you really want, or have defenses a man couldn’t break through if he were on steroids, you will see it. And best of all, with your coach, you will be able to make new more empowering choices. Your coach will become your favorite ally, your biggest supporter, the one who will not settle for a lesser you than she feels you are capable of being. She will encourage you to raise the bar on yourself and what you want from your life. She will challenge you to live up to that, to live on your edge, to constantly be moving forward and blossoming into more of who you are. Now, the question people often ask is, can’t I do all this on my own? Can’t I just read a book and save myself some money? The answer is of course you can. The most wonderful thing about coaching is that no one really “needs” coaching (unlike therapy!). Coaching is for those who truly want to invest in themselves to become their best self more quickly. Coaching is for people who don’t want to take the circuitous route of wrong turns and missed opportunities. They want the best life they can possibly have now. They know that by investing time with a coach, they will much more quickly create the life and partner of their dreams. Anyone who has ever had a personal trainer knows how much easier and faster they get results working with a trainer than just signing up for the gym. Sure you can commit to going to the gym three times a week on your own, but even if you actually make it, how hard are you going to push yourself while you’re there? With a trainer you not only make it to the gym, but your trainer will push you much harder than you would push yourself. Your trainer expects so much from you that you expect more from yourself—and deliver. Before you know it, you’ve dropped a dress size and can wear those jeans you loved from 5 years ago. Could you have done it on your own? Sure you could, but for most of us mortals, it’s much harder and will take many false starts and there’s no telling when we’ll fit in those jeans. So having a Relationship Coach is something you decide to do because you’re tired of all the false starts. You’re tired of ending up with Mr. Wrong or settling for Mr. Almost Perfect. You’re ready to either let your relationship go or have it be fulfilling on every level. You’re ready to have what you want now, meaning not at some undisclosed time in the future but right now. The coach will hold you to that and will help you understand what having what you want requires of you—and it does require a lot. One of my favorite sayings of a past teacher is, “To have the perfect partner, you must be the perfect partner.” With a good Relationship Coach, you will come to respect the truth of that and all that it implies. You will understand that it is who you’re being in the world that is bringing you the results you’re getting. Change who you’re being and you’re on your way to fulfilling your every heart’s desire. As a spiritually based Relationship Coach, Pamela Ramey-Tatum works with people who desire to live more consciously, to live from their hearts and to live more fully who they are. She specializes in working with women who are ready to manifest the love of their life, now! She also teaches Kundalini Yoga and “Empowering the Goddess” workshops. Call Pamela today for more information or for your free sample Coaching session: 407-733-6282
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