Attracting Your Soul Mate
by Pamela Ramey-Tatum

Though you may accept the Laws of Attraction and Consciousness as Cause model, you may still find yourself asking, 'How can I actually change my vibration? How do I change my beliefs, my identity, my consciousness? And specifically how does this really work in attracting love and the soul mate I desire?'

First, think about the fact that you change all the time. When you were a child, there was a moment when the child was gone and the young woman or man was there. There have undoubtedly been many moments in your life when you had realizations that changed you and your beliefs profoundly. So this is not so different than the thousands of changes you have made in your life, your thinking, and your beliefs thus far.

The only difference is that this is a conscious change, a change that you are choosing based on your desire and your willingness to attract your soul mate, to have what your heart desires in love and relationship.

You have heard the saying, "what you focus on expands." That is helpful here because you are going to stop focusing on what you don't have and start focusing on what you do have, which happens to be the love of your life, the relationship your heart desires. You're going to shift your attention, your focus, from this moment forward.

This method of Deliberately Intending allows you to truly feel the inner fulfillment and align your identity with your desires. Try it right now:

* Spend some time in a meditative state. Get quiet.

* Begin to let come to you that which your heart desires in a partner and relationship. Step into the future at a time when you have the wonderful relationship and soul mate of your heart's desire.

* Let a scene unfold that's at a time well into the future when your dream is fully manifest. Perhaps you are celebrating your five year anniversary or sharing holiday festivities together.

* For a brief moment as your experience unfolds, have the distinct sense of remembering back to a time before your soul mate was with you.

* Continue letting the scenario emerge, allowing as many details as you can. Be sure that you are totally immersed in the scene and feeling it.

* Be sure that you are actually involved in the experience, not as an observer of yourself, but in it,seeing through your own eyes.

* Continue with this until you have a clear and distinct body sense of what this fulfillment feels like.

* Once you have the total body sense and a feeling of utter joy, slowly allow yourself to return to the present.

* The secret now is to remain fulfilled as you were in your meditation, feeling the presence of your soul mate at all times.

* Rest in the knowing that with your consciousness aligned, the Universe will provide something that's equal to or better than what you imagined.

Enjoy the inner fulfillment of your desires, and do it for the pleasure it brings you, rather than the consciousness of, "Great, now I can have what I want." Also do not try to will anything to happen. Instead, work on yourself, making yourself the best you can be. Do things that you would do for and with your partner.

Take your partner on a date; go to sleep with your partner each night in your consciousness. Think--and feel--in terms of the partnership already existing. Feel yourself deeply in love, sharing life with your soul mate.

You may ask if you should still date after assuming this new Self. Well, you may or you may not. What's certain is that since your identity has shifted, your consciousness regarding dating--or whatever you're doing--will be different. For example, you won't date someone if you intuitively know the person is not the love of your life. You might not be surfing the internet dating sites anymore either. Whatever you're doing, it's with the consciousness that you are this version of your Self who is already fulfilled in love. You are released and allowing the universe to work its magic in your life.

Remain true to your aligned identity no matter what. If anyone shows up who is not everything you intended or more, do not be swayed. It is important to remember that the Universe may test you to see if your identity really is that of one who is not willing to settle for less than your heart's desire. You have to be clear about what you want. If you are willing to settle, then the Universe will oblige, but if you aren't, the Universe will also oblige.

Trust that all will be provided in perfect time. If you begin to question the process and ask, "Where is this manifestation?" you'll move out of the consciousness of one who is already fulfilled and into the consciousness of one who is lacking. Remember that ninety-nine percent of creation happens before manifestation, so manifestation is not the hard part!

Should you find yourself in a questioning or doubting state, simply close your eyes and allow the scenario with your soul mate to return. Again, feel the experience with your entire body, your whole being. Continue until you truly feel the joy. Then rest again in the fulfillment. Know that there is nothing to do but trust and allow. Be who the one who already has this wonderful relationship and trust that in that consciousness, you will allow it to be so. Believe and feel in your heart that your soul mate is with you; then allow the Universe to give you everything your heart desires, and more.

Pamela is a Relationship & Laws of Attraction Coach, Workshop Facilitator and Author. She works with people who desire to live more consciously, to live from their hearts and to become more fully who they are. She specializes in working with people who are ready have the relationship of their heart's desire. To schedule a coaching session, visit www. empoweringlove.com or email Pamela at pamela@empoweringlove.com ATTRACT THE LOVE OF YOUR LIFE, NOW! Contact the author, Pamela Ramey-Tatum , at pamela@empoweringlove.com
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