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Awakening to Love,
designed for people like you
who are ready to have the relationship--the
love--of their heart's desire.
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Perfect Partner |
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Often
when I talk to my students and clients about
attracting their "Perfect Partner,"
they say that no one is "perfect" so
how could there be a "Perfect Partner"
out there for them. The answer is that there is
a perfect partner, one who is 'perfect for you.'
There is a partner who will meet you exactly
where you need to be met, teach you what you
need to learn, heal you in ways that you need to
heal, move you in ways that you need to be
moved. The other part of the equation, however,
is that we have to be our own perfect partner
first.
It is ourselves that we must love first and
foremost, for we can only love another as fully as
we can love ourselves. We have to do our own
healing first and be whole and happy with
ourselves if we are to attract a partner who is
whole and happy. Rather than looking for a partner
to make us feel loved or loveable or to complete
us, we have to love ourselves and find completion
ourselves through communion with Spirit. Then and
only then can we come to our partner to serve, to
love, to share rather than looking to them for
validation or to make us feel this or that.
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Borrow
the beloved's eyes. Look through them and
you'll see the beloved's face...~
Rumi, "Checkmate"
Your deepest wound can either ruin
your life or be your greatest gift; it's a
choice. Open your heart to the gift and it
is yours. ~Pamela Ramey-Tatum |
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Of course your perfect partner will bring you
great joy and make you feel loved and appreciated
and cared for, and much more. But if you have not
yet given these gifts to yourself, you cannot
expect to attract a partner who will give them to
you. This is not to say that you won't have an
incredible attraction that will lead to a
relationship, but until you have done your own
work and gotten to a place of true self love and
connection to Spirit, your relationships will
ultimately reveal to you the ways in which you are
not loving yourself and are not spiritually
connected. They will reveal the disowned parts of
yourself, that shadow side that you have locked in
a closet and refused to look at. We always attract
partners who are where we are, so until you have
done your work, you will attract partners who have
not done theirs, and most probably you will spend
a lot of time suffering in one way or another.
Spiritually speaking, every partner you have ever
had or will have is perfect in that they reveal to
you exactly where you are at the time. Even a
relationship that causes you tremendous pain can
be a soul mate relationship that enables you to
break through to another level of self awareness.
I once was involved on and off for six-years with
a man who repeatedly cheated on me which brought
up extreme feelings of unworthiness in me. I kept
going back to him no matter how unhappy I was
because I hadn't learned what I needed to learn. I
couldn't fully break away from him until I made a
major breakthrough in realizing my part in the
equation: that I had deep insecurities about my
worthiness of love. He was revealing to me what I
was believing about myself, that somehow, I was
unworthy of being loved.
After this realization, I began the long
process--indeed a transformational journey--of
healing that part of myself. Once I healed that
wound, I no longer attracted that kind of partner,
but Instead, attracted a man who had also done
lots of inner work and healing. He is healthy and
whole and committed to a spiritual path and
continued growth. It's the Law of Attraction: once
I felt truly worthy, I attracted a man who does
not bring up the old unworthiness feelings in me; they
aren't there to bring up. It is ultimately our
own feelings about ourselves that "The
Other" reveals to us. What a gift that can
be. We should say, "Thank you for showing me
how I feel about myself." I do consider that
relationship, although excrutiating at the time,
an important soul mate relationship. I feel
gratitude for what I learned about myself as a
result.
It's important to allow painful relationships to
reveal your need to heal and transform yourself
and move to a new level of self love and spiritual
connection. People who don't do the healing after
painful relationships continue to attract the same
experiences with other partners until they do.
Once
you have experienced some healing around your
deepest wounds, you can attract a partner who has
done their inner work and healing as well. This
doesn't mean that neither of you will have more
healing to do. There is always more healing, more
layers of healing around those deep wounds. But
what it does mean is that rather than hurt each
other more deeply, you will help each other to
heal.
Once you truly love yourself and feel your divine
connection to spirit, you will attract the person
who is in that same place you are. Your
"perfect partner" will walk right into
your life and reveal to you just how much you
really do love yourself.
Blessings~
Pamela
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Pamela Ramey-Tatum, M.A.,CTACC
Relationship & Law of Attraction
Coach,
Workshop Facilitator
© 2007 by Pamela Ramey-Tatum
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the relationhip of their heart's desire.
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